It’s all Okie-dokie for families in Oklahoma. And HomeSnacks is here to tell you where the best places for families are located in the Sooner State for 2025.
How did we determine Oklahoma’s most family friendly places? We consulted the US Census on places in this South Central state with more than 10,000 residents. We looked at several factors: crime, education, family friendly activities, and the percent of households that currently have children. We ended up with 40 family friendly Oklahoma places that any family would be lucky to call home.
Now, it’s not lost on us that some of Oklahoma’s safest places and wealthiest places are also Oklahoma’s most family friendly. There should be no limits one should go to to protect their family and Oklahoma’s most family friendly cities have those limits in place; and sometimes, that comes at a cost. But the cool thing about Oklahoma is that there are safe, family friendly places for every budget. There are great places like Yukon for families just starting out, places like Chickasha for families on a budget, and places like Broken Arrow for families that love being one with nature.
To learn more about our methodology and to see why Oklahoma’s top ten best places to raise a family are truly the best of the best, read on.
Table Of Contents: Top Ten | Methodology | Summary | Table
No, it’s not a coincidence that most of Oklahoma’s family friendly places are centered around two of Oklahoma’s biggest cities: Oklahoma City and Tulsa. There’s more to do in these places and jobs with competitive salaries are plentiful.
So, if you want your family to safely wake up in the land of ancient mountain ranges and vast prairies in their backyard, great schools down the street, and endless, healthy activities at their disposal, HomeSnacks suggests that you look no further than Oklahoma’s number one place to raise a family, Jenks.
If you want to see how Oklahoma’s other amazing best places to raise a family faired, take a look at the list below. And if you don’t see your favorite there, head to the bottom.
More reading about Oklahoma and the best places for families in the country:
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- Best Cities To Raise A Family In America
- Best States To Raise A Family In America
The 10 Best Places To Raise A Family In Oklahoma For 2025
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Population: 26,519
Median Income: $104,970
Average Home Price: $285,600
Family Friendly Amenities Score: 40
Closest Major City: Tulsa
Households with kids: 48.5%
More on Jenks: Data
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Population: 10,157
Median Income: $60,000
Average Home Price: $185,900
Family Friendly Amenities Score: 55
Closest Major City: Tulsa
Households with kids: 38.0%
More on Coweta: Data
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Population: 29,402
Median Income: $99,602
Average Home Price: $298,200
Family Friendly Amenities Score: 37
Closest Major City: Tulsa
Households with kids: 41.1%
More on Bixby: Data
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Population: 12,208
Median Income: $96,446
Average Home Price: $223,900
Family Friendly Amenities Score: 53
Closest Major City: Tulsa
Households with kids: 37.8%
More on Choctaw: Data
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Population: 39,013
Median Income: $79,386
Average Home Price: $231,400
Family Friendly Amenities Score: 36
Closest Major City: Tulsa
Households with kids: 38.1%
More on Owasso: Data
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Population: 19,921
Median Income: $57,120
Average Home Price: $172,500
Family Friendly Amenities Score: 68
Closest Major City: Tulsa
Households with kids: 32.0%
More on Claremore: Data
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Population: 115,919
Median Income: $85,220
Average Home Price: $229,300
Family Friendly Amenities Score: 52
Closest Major City: Tulsa
Households with kids: 35.0%
More on Broken Arrow: Data
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Population: 95,618
Median Income: $102,032
Average Home Price: $324,900
Family Friendly Amenities Score: 38
Closest Major City: Tulsa
Households with kids: 32.9%
More on Edmond: Data
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Population: 21,290
Median Income: $88,262
Average Home Price: $227,800
Family Friendly Amenities Score: 41
Closest Major City: Tulsa
Households with kids: 33.5%
More on Mustang: Data
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Population: 12,238
Median Income: $97,315
Average Home Price: $255,100
Family Friendly Amenities Score: 43
Closest Major City: Tulsa
Households with kids: 36.4%
More on Newcastle: Data
Methodology: How do you determine which place is best for families in Oklahoma anyways?
To give you the places in Oklahoma that are best for families, we must look at a handful of metrics. We want to measure the criteria people want in a family-friendly city utilizing Saturday Night Science.
After researching U.S. Census data produced for the state of Oklahoma, we looked at the data for every single city in the state. We paid particular attention to:
- Crime (Both violent and property)
- Quality of local schools
- Distance to a major city without necessarily being in it
- % of households with children
- Family-friendly amenities nearby (museums, libraries, and colleges)
We then gave each city a “Family Score.”
The higher the score, the better the city is for families. We also limited our results to cities with over 10,000 people. For Oklahoma, that meant a total of 40 cities.
We updated this article for 2025. This is our tenth time ranking the best cities for families in Oklahoma.
Summary: The Best Places To Raise A Family In Oklahoma
If you’re looking for a breakdown of cities in Oklahoma ranked by criteria that most agree make a place a great spot for families, this is an accurate list.
The best places for families in Oklahoma are Jenks, Coweta, Bixby, Choctaw, Owasso, Claremore, Broken Arrow, Edmond, Mustang, and Newcastle.
Here’s a look at the best cities for singles Oklahoma according to the data:
- Warr Acres
- McAlester
- Shawnee
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Best Places For Families In Oklahoma
| Rank | City | Population | Median Income | Average Home Price | Amenities Score |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Jenks, OK | 26,519 | $104,970 | $285,600 | 59 |
| 2 | Coweta, OK | 10,157 | $60,000 | $185,900 | 38 |
| 3 | Bixby, OK | 29,402 | $99,602 | $298,200 | 33 |
| 4 | Choctaw, OK | 12,208 | $96,446 | $223,900 | 58 |
| 5 | Owasso, OK | 39,013 | $79,386 | $231,400 | 40 |
| 6 | Claremore, OK | 19,921 | $57,120 | $172,500 | 59 |
| 7 | Broken Arrow, OK | 115,919 | $85,220 | $229,300 | 38 |
| 8 | Edmond, OK | 95,618 | $102,032 | $324,900 | 40 |
| 9 | Mustang, OK | 21,290 | $88,262 | $227,800 | 37 |
| 10 | Newcastle, OK | 12,238 | $97,315 | $255,100 | 34 |