Are you looking for love in Oklahoma?
Or are you just hoping to hook up with a hot Oklahoman?
Either way, we’ve got you covered here.
If you live in Oklahoma, there’s a pretty good chance there are a lot of singles in your area. The Sooner State has plenty of people over 18 who aren’t married or in a serious relationship.
That’s great news for people who are single and looking to mingle.
So, where are the best cities for singles in Oklahoma? We used Saturday Night Science to find out.
Table Of Contents: Top Ten | Methodology | Summary | Table
The 10 Best Cities For Singles In Oklahoma For 2025
So, what was the best city for singles in Oklahoma? Stillwater ranks as the best place for singles in Oklahoma if you care about things singles care about, like nightlife, affordable housing, and other singles.
Read below to see how we crunched the numbers and how each city ranked. If you live in or are close to one of these cities and are single, you should probably get out more often.
Just saying.
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- Best Places To Live In Oklahoma
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- Most Dangerous Cities In Oklahoma
The 10 Best Cities For Singles In Oklahoma For 2025
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Population: 48,818
Median Age: 23.7
Married households: 13.0%
Households with kids: 18.8%
More on Stillwater: Data
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Population: 10,437
Median Age: 31.7
Married households: 15.0%
Households with kids: 32.1%
More on Warr Acres: Data
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Population: 412,322
Median Age: 35.5
Married households: 17.0%
Households with kids: 28.2%
More on Tulsa: Data
Tulsa, OK is home to many, including my parents. The crime in Tulsa is absolutely horrible, and it seems to be ran down very much. There are fun places to visit if you are into water parks or gambling at a Casino. I can’t get past the area though. It gives me an uneasy feeling, along with dread. It has a lot of litter and homeless people. It really needs help.
You definetly have to watch out for the tolls. They are everywhere, and if you’re not from around there you can easily miss a turn and have to go back through the same toll. The workers at the toll show no mercy either. One time I had went to a toll and told them I was lost. They told me to go down to the next exit and turn around and come back through. So, I paid to go through the toll, turned around, and then went back to the toll and they charged me again. Not only are there tolls EVERYWHERE but there is ALWAYS construction going on and the roads there are absolutely terrible. So, the money you pay in tolls seems to not really go into the roads. Over the 20 years of me going there and visiting my family I have known it to always have crappy roads and construction going on but no workers in sight.
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Population: 128,714
Median Age: 31.6
Married households: 19.0%
Households with kids: 26.7%
More on Norman: Data
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Population: 20,606
Median Age: 31.5
Married households: 18.0%
Households with kids: 36.0%
More on Bethany: Data
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Population: 18,670
Median Age: 33.5
Married households: 16.0%
Households with kids: 32.4%
More on Altus: Data
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Population: 16,513
Median Age: 30.7
Married households: 20.0%
Households with kids: 26.8%
More on Tahlequah: Data
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Population: 12,014
Median Age: 25.2
Married households: 21.0%
Households with kids: 31.4%
More on Weatherford: Data
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Population: 50,821
Median Age: 34.7
Married households: 21.0%
Households with kids: 28.8%
More on Enid: Data
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Population: 19,209
Median Age: 34.4
Married households: 14.0%
Households with kids: 28.8%
More on Durant: Data
I am originally from Bennington, Okla. but later we moved to Durant and Durant is still one of my favorite places to go to.
Methodology: How do you determine which city is best for singles in Oklahoma anyways?
To give you the places in Oklahoma which are best for singles to find one another, we used Saturday Night Science to look at a handful of metrics. Of course, we want to measure the type of people who live in each city and make some assumptions about what single people like.
So we researched the internet for a database that contains all that information.
We threw a lot of criteria at this one to get the best, most complete results possible. Using the 2019-2023 American Community Survey Census data produced for the state of Oklahoma, we looked at every single city in the state. We paid particular attention to:
- Population density
- % of population that’s male vs. female (closer to a 50-50 ratio is better)
- % of households with kids
- Median age
- Number of unmarried people in each city
We then gave each city a “Singles Score.”
The higher the score, the better the city is for singles to find one another. We also limited our results to cities with over 10,000 people. For Oklahoma, that meant a total of 40 cities.
We updated this article for 2025. This is our tenth time ranking the best cities for singles in Oklahoma.
Read on to see why Stillwater is the talk of the town while Newcastle is probably a bit on the bland side.
Summary: The Best Cities for Singles in Oklahoma for 2025
If you’re looking for a breakdown of cities in Oklahoma ranked by criteria that most agree make a place a great spot for finding a single person (and potentially love), this is an accurate list.
The best cities for singles in Oklahoma are Stillwater, Warr Acres, Tulsa, Norman, Bethany, Altus, Tahlequah, Weatherford, Enid, and Durant.
Here’s a look at the most boring cities in Oklahoma according to the data:
- Newcastle
- Choctaw
- Bixby
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Best Cities For Singles In Oklahoma
| Rank | City | Population | Median Age | % Married Households | % Households /w Kids |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Stillwater, OK | 48,818 | 23.7 | 13.0% | 18.8% |
| 2 | Warr Acres, OK | 10,437 | 31.7 | 15.0% | 32.1% |
| 3 | Tulsa, OK | 412,322 | 35.5 | 17.0% | 28.2% |
| 4 | Norman, OK | 128,714 | 31.6 | 19.0% | 26.7% |
| 5 | Bethany, OK | 20,606 | 31.5 | 18.0% | 36.0% |
| 6 | Altus, OK | 18,670 | 33.5 | 16.0% | 32.4% |
| 7 | Tahlequah, OK | 16,513 | 30.7 | 20.0% | 26.8% |
| 8 | Weatherford, OK | 12,014 | 25.2 | 21.0% | 31.4% |
| 9 | Enid, OK | 50,821 | 34.7 | 21.0% | 28.8% |
| 10 | Durant, OK | 19,209 | 34.4 | 14.0% | 28.8% |
| 11 | Owasso, OK | 39,013 | 33.6 | 24.0% | 38.1% |
| 12 | Miami, OK | 12,960 | 32.2 | 20.0% | 33.5% |
| 13 | Lawton, OK | 90,662 | 32.1 | 11.0% | 34.2% |
| 14 | Bartlesville, OK | 37,559 | 36.9 | 21.0% | 32.3% |
| 15 | Okmulgee, OK | 11,370 | 36.0 | 21.0% | 30.0% |
| 16 | Ada, OK | 16,536 | 32.7 | 22.0% | 28.4% |
| 17 | Guymon, OK | 12,596 | 30.9 | 8.0% | 44.0% |
| 18 | Claremore, OK | 19,921 | 36.2 | 21.0% | 32.0% |
| 19 | Moore, OK | 63,045 | 34.2 | 25.0% | 37.2% |
| 20 | Broken Arrow, OK | 115,919 | 37.0 | 23.0% | 35.0% |
| 21 | Woodward, OK | 11,976 | 35.1 | 26.0% | 30.7% |
| 22 | Muskogee, OK | 36,819 | 36.4 | 23.0% | 32.2% |
| 23 | Mcalester, OK | 18,098 | 35.9 | 22.0% | 31.4% |
| 24 | Chickasha, OK | 16,349 | 36.9 | 28.0% | 29.6% |
| 25 | Jenks, OK | 26,519 | 34.5 | 28.0% | 48.5% |
| 26 | Yukon, OK | 24,802 | 39.7 | 26.0% | 31.7% |
| 27 | Mustang, OK | 21,290 | 39.3 | 28.0% | 33.5% |
| 28 | Edmond, OK | 95,618 | 37.7 | 24.0% | 32.9% |
| 29 | El Reno, OK | 17,919 | 34.7 | 21.0% | 32.3% |
| 30 | Shawnee, OK | 31,511 | 35.0 | 26.0% | 29.9% |
| 31 | Sand Springs, OK | 19,973 | 37.3 | 33.0% | 33.6% |
| 32 | Guthrie, OK | 11,021 | 39.7 | 22.0% | 33.3% |
| 33 | Coweta, OK | 10,157 | 35.1 | 28.0% | 38.0% |
| 34 | Glenpool, OK | 13,885 | 34.4 | 27.0% | 39.1% |
| 35 | Sapulpa, OK | 22,268 | 40.0 | 29.0% | 30.9% |
| 36 | Ardmore, OK | 24,757 | 36.7 | 24.0% | 33.9% |
| 37 | Duncan, OK | 22,872 | 40.0 | 30.0% | 30.9% |
| 38 | Bixby, OK | 29,402 | 36.7 | 24.0% | 41.1% |
| 39 | Choctaw, OK | 12,208 | 38.1 | 32.0% | 37.8% |
| 40 | Newcastle, OK | 12,238 | 40.1 | 39.0% | 36.4% |