The 10 Best Cities For Singles In Oklahoma For 2021

We used science and data to determine which cities in Oklahoma have the best set up for singles: no kids, no old people, and a lot to do.

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Editor’s Note: We updated this article for 2021. This is our seventh time ranking the best cities for singles in Oklahoma.

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Are you trying to find love in Oklahoma?

Or are you just looking to hook up?

Either way, we've got you covered here. At least, we'll point you in the right direction - which is why you came here in the first place, right?

According to the Pew Research Center, the number of Americans who have remained single (not married) is growing. That means, people are dating a lot longer than they used to.

There are many reasons for that, including financial and cultural. And, we suspect smartphones and social media has a lot to do with it, too. After all, we're all a lot more distracted these days.

If you live in Oklahoma, there's a pretty good chance there are a lot of singles in your area. The Sooner State ranks in the top 10 when it comes to number of people over the age of 18 who aren't married, or in a serious relationship. That's great news for people looking for their match.

So, where are the best cities for singles in Oklahoma? We've got the answers here.

The 10 Best Cities For Singles In Oklahoma For 2021

  1. Stillwater
  2. Tulsa
  3. Bethany
  4. Norman
  5. Tahlequah
  6. Warr Acres
  7. Weatherford
  8. Altus
  9. Okmulgee
  10. Lawton

So, what was the best city for singles in Oklahoma? Stillwater ranks as the best place for singles in Oklahoma if you care about things singles care about like night life, affordable housing, and other singles.

Read on below to see how we crunched the numbers and how each city ranked. If you live in or really close to one of these cities, and you're single, you should probably get out more often. And stop staring at your phone. Just sayin'.

The most boring place in Oklahoma? That would be Bixby.

And after you find a mate, you'll no doubt want to start a family and buy a home right? Don't forget to check out the best places to live in Oklahoma or the safest places to live in Oklahoma.

For more Oklahoma reading, check out:

The 10 Best Cities For Singles In Oklahoma For 2021

Stillwater, OK

Overall SnackAbility


Population: 49,952
Median Age: 23.5
Married households: 15.0%
Households with kids: 19.8%
More on Stillwater: PhotosHomes For Sale | Data

Tulsa, OK

Overall SnackAbility


Population: 402,324
Median Age: 35.1
Married households: 18.0%
Households with kids: 29.2%
More on Tulsa: PhotosHomes For Sale | Data

Bethany, OK

Overall SnackAbility


Population: 19,366
Median Age: 35.0
Married households: 21.0%
Households with kids: 31.4%
More on Bethany: PhotosHomes For Sale | Data

Norman, OK

Overall SnackAbility


Population: 122,837
Median Age: 30.9
Married households: 19.0%
Households with kids: 29.3%
More on Norman: PhotosHomes For Sale | Data

Tahlequah, OK

Overall SnackAbility


Population: 16,667
Median Age: 29.1
Married households: 18.0%
Households with kids: 26.9%
More on Tahlequah: PhotosHomes For Sale | Data

Warr Acres, OK

Overall SnackAbility


Population: 10,180
Median Age: 31.0
Married households: 18.0%
Households with kids: 37.5%
More on Warr Acres: PhotosHomes For Sale | Data

Weatherford, OK

Overall SnackAbility


Population: 11,949
Median Age: 24.1
Married households: 20.0%
Households with kids: 31.3%
More on Weatherford: PhotosHomes For Sale | Data

Altus, OK

Overall SnackAbility


Population: 18,744
Median Age: 32.8
Married households: 19.0%
Households with kids: 35.4%
More on Altus: PhotosHomes For Sale | Data

Okmulgee, OK

Overall SnackAbility


Population: 11,846
Median Age: 32.5
Married households: 22.0%
Households with kids: 33.2%
More on Okmulgee: PhotosHomes For Sale | Data

Lawton, OK

Overall SnackAbility


Population: 94,017
Median Age: 31.3
Married households: 13.0%
Households with kids: 34.6%
More on Lawton: PhotosHomes For Sale | Data

How do you determine which city is best for singles in Oklahoma anyways?

To give you the places in Oklahoma which are best for singles to find one another, we have to look at a handful of metrics. Of course, we want to measure the type of people who live in each city, and make some assumptions about what single people like.

So we researched the internet for a database that contains all that information.

How we crunched the numbers for the Sooner State

We threw a lot of criteria at this one in order to get the best, most complete results possible. Using the 2015-2019 American Community Survey Census data produced for the state of Oklahoma, we looked at every single city in the state. We paid particular attention to:

  • Population density
  • % of population that's male vs. female (closer to a 50-50 ratio is better)
  • % of households with kids
  • Median age
  • Number of unmarried people in each city

We then gave each city a Singles Score.

The higher the score, the better the city is for singles to find one another. We also limited our results to cities with populations over 10,000 people. For Oklahoma, that meant a total of 38 cities. You can download the data here.

Read on to see why Stillwater is the talk of the town while Bixby is probably a bit on the boring side.

There You Have It - The Best Cities for Singles in Oklahoma for 2021

If you're looking for a breakdown of cities in Oklahoma ranked by criteria that most would agree make a place a great spot for finding a single person (and potentially love), this is an accurate list.

Here's a look at the most boring cities in Oklahoma according to the data:

  1. Bixby
  2. Sand Springs
  3. El Reno

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Detailed List Of The Best Cities For Singles In Oklahoma

Rank City Population Median Age
1 Stillwater, OK 49,952 23.5
2 Tulsa, OK 402,324 35.1
3 Bethany, OK 19,366 35.0
4 Norman, OK 122,837 30.9
5 Tahlequah, OK 16,667 29.1
6 Warr Acres, OK 10,180 31.0
7 Weatherford, OK 11,949 24.1
8 Altus, OK 18,744 32.8
9 Okmulgee, OK 11,846 32.5
10 Lawton, OK 94,017 31.3
11 Miami, OK 13,289 33.3
12 Enid, OK 50,394 35.0
13 Owasso, OK 36,173 32.9
14 Ada, OK 17,260 31.7
15 Durant, OK 17,856 33.2
16 Guymon, OK 11,488 30.7
17 Claremore, OK 18,753 36.4
18 Moore, OK 60,943 34.3
19 Bartlesville, OK 36,412 38.4
20 Broken Arrow, OK 108,496 37.3
21 Edmond, OK 92,009 35.7
22 Glenpool, OK 13,666 31.6
23 Woodward, OK 12,448 35.0
24 Muskogee, OK 37,624 36.2
25 Mcalester, OK 18,045 35.8
26 Chickasha, OK 16,337 38.2
27 Shawnee, OK 31,235 35.6
28 Ardmore, OK 24,821 37.2
29 Jenks, OK 22,488 33.7
30 Yukon, OK 26,943 37.7
31 Guthrie, OK 11,376 36.5
32 Sapulpa, OK 21,041 38.0
33 Mustang, OK 21,459 37.7
34 Choctaw, OK 12,474 41.1
35 Duncan, OK 22,618 38.1
36 El Reno, OK 19,095 35.5
37 Sand Springs, OK 19,794 37.5
38 Bixby, OK 26,541 35.9

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About Chris Kolmar

Chris Kolmar has been in the real estate business for almost ten years now. He originally worked for Movoto Real Estate as the director of marketing before founding HomeSnacks.

He believes the key to finding the right place to live comes down to looking at the data, reading about things to do, and, most importantly, checking it out yourself before you move.

If you've been looking for a place to live in the past several years, you've probably stumbled upon his writing already.

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