The 10 Best Cities For Singles In New Mexico For 2023


We used science and data to determine which cities in New Mexico have the best set up for singles: no kids, no old people, and a lot to do.

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Are you trying to find love in New Mexico?

Or are you just looking to hook up?

Either way, we've got you covered here. At least, we'll point you in the right direction - which is why you came here in the first place, right?

According to the Pew Research Center, the number of Americans who have remained single (not married) is growing. That means, people are dating a lot longer than they used to.

There are many reasons for that, including financial and cultural. And, we suspect smartphones and social media has a lot to do with it, too. After all, we're all a lot more distracted these days.

If you live in New Mexico, there's a pretty good chance there are a lot of singles in your area. The Land of Enchantment ranks in the top 10 when it comes to number of people over the age of 18 who aren't married, or in a serious relationship. That's great news for people looking for their match.

So, where are the best cities for singles in New Mexico? We've got the answers here.

The 10 Best Cities For Singles In New Mexico For 2023

  1. Lovington
  2. Las Cruces
  3. Portales
  4. Albuquerque
  5. Clovis
  6. Taos
  7. Anthony
  8. Deming
  9. Bernalillo
  10. Alamogordo

So, what was the best city for singles in New Mexico? Lovington ranks as the best place for singles in New Mexico if you care about things singles care about like night life, affordable housing, and other singles.

Read on below to see how we crunched the numbers and how each city ranked. If you live in or really close to one of these cities, and you're single, you should probably get out more often. And stop staring at your phone. Just sayin'.

The most boring place in New Mexico? That would be Raton.

And after you find a mate, you'll no doubt want to start a family and buy a home right? Don't forget to check out the best places to live in New Mexico or the safest places to live in New Mexico.

For more New Mexico reading, check out:

The 10 Best Cities For Singles In New Mexico For 2023

Lovington, NM

Source: Public domain
Overall SnackAbility

5
/10

Population: 11,505
Median Age: 29.8
Married households: 13.0%
Households with kids: 48.6%
More on Lovington: PhotosHomes For Sale | Data

Las Cruces, NM

Source: Public domain
Overall SnackAbility

6
/10

Population: 109,934
Median Age: 32.7
Married households: 14.0%
Households with kids: 29.1%
More on Las Cruces: PhotosHomes For Sale | Data

Portales, NM

Overall SnackAbility

6
/10

Population: 12,151
Median Age: 27.1
Married households: 16.0%
Households with kids: 32.3%
More on Portales: PhotosHomes For Sale | Data

Albuquerque, NM

Overall SnackAbility

6
/10

Population: 562,336
Median Age: 37.5
Married households: 15.0%
Households with kids: 26.9%
More on Albuquerque: PhotosHomes For Sale | Data

Clovis, NM

Overall SnackAbility

6
/10

Population: 38,505
Median Age: 31.8
Married households: 14.0%
Households with kids: 35.0%
More on Clovis: PhotosHomes For Sale | Data

Taos, NM

Overall SnackAbility

4
/10

Population: 6,524
Median Age: 52.6
Married households: 9.0%
Households with kids: 12.3%
More on Taos: PhotosHomes For Sale | Data

Anthony, NM

Source: Public domain
Overall SnackAbility

2
/10

Population: 8,748
Median Age: 29.0
Married households: 6.0%
Households with kids: 39.1%
More on Anthony: PhotosHomes For Sale | Data

Deming, NM

Overall SnackAbility

4
/10

Population: 14,730
Median Age: 37.0
Married households: 15.0%
Households with kids: 28.3%
More on Deming: PhotosHomes For Sale | Data

Bernalillo, NM

Source: Public domain
Overall SnackAbility

5
/10

Population: 9,049
Median Age: 43.7
Married households: 21.0%
Households with kids: 24.6%
More on Bernalillo: PhotosHomes For Sale | Data

Alamogordo, NM

Source: Public domain
Overall SnackAbility

6
/10

Population: 31,201
Median Age: 39.0
Married households: 13.0%
Households with kids: 27.3%
More on Alamogordo: PhotosHomes For Sale | Data

Methodology: How do you determine which city is best for singles in New Mexico anyways?

To give you the places in New Mexico which are best for singles to find one another, we have to look at a handful of metrics. Of course, we want to measure the type of people who live in each city, and make some assumptions about what single people like.

So we researched the internet for a database that contains all that information.

How we crunched the numbers for the Land of Enchantment

We threw a lot of criteria at this one in order to get the best, most complete results possible. Using the 2017-2021 American Community Survey Census data produced for the state of New Mexico, we looked at every single city in the state. We paid particular attention to:

  • Population density
  • % of population that's male vs. female (closer to a 50-50 ratio is better)
  • % of households with kids
  • Median age
  • Number of unmarried people in each city

We then gave each city a Singles Score.

The higher the score, the better the city is for singles to find one another. We also limited our results to cities with populations over 5,000 people. For New Mexico, that meant a total of 33 cities. You can download the data here.

Read on to see why Lovington is the talk of the town while Raton is probably a bit on the boring side.

Summary: The Best Cities for Singles in New Mexico for 2023

If you're looking for a breakdown of cities in New Mexico ranked by criteria that most would agree make a place a great spot for finding a single person (and potentially love), this is an accurate list.

Here's a look at the most boring cities in New Mexico according to the data:

  1. Raton
  2. Grants
  3. Los Lunas

For more New Mexico reading, check out:

Detailed List Of The Best Cities For Singles In New Mexico

Rank City Population Median Age
1 Lovington, NM 11,505 29.8
2 Las Cruces, NM 109,934 32.7
3 Portales, NM 12,151 27.1
4 Albuquerque, NM 562,336 37.5
5 Clovis, NM 38,505 31.8
6 Taos, NM 6,524 52.6
7 Anthony, NM 8,748 29.0
8 Deming, NM 14,730 37.0
9 Bernalillo, NM 9,049 43.7
10 Alamogordo, NM 31,201 39.0
11 Truth Or Consequences, NM 6,078 43.7
12 Santa Fe, NM 86,935 44.0
13 Roswell, NM 48,347 35.3
14 Sunland Park, NM 16,488 32.4
15 Farmington, NM 46,696 34.7
16 Gallup, NM 21,901 34.5
17 Las Vegas, NM 13,247 40.4
18 Hobbs, NM 39,476 30.4
19 Belen, NM 7,374 40.9
20 Aztec, NM 6,283 33.0
21 Bloomfield, NM 7,514 33.6
22 Corrales, NM 8,488 56.3
23 Carlsbad, NM 31,525 35.1
24 Socorro, NM 8,553 36.1
25 Tucumcari, NM 5,221 39.2
26 Rio Rancho, NM 102,403 38.7
27 Ruidoso, NM 7,636 50.6
28 Edgewood, NM 6,106 41.6
29 Los Ranchos De Albuquerque, NM 5,904 52.7
30 Artesia, NM 12,637 32.8
31 Los Lunas, NM 17,072 38.7
32 Grants, NM 9,208 33.6
33 Raton, NM 6,082 44.6

How Is The Area In ?

Editor's Note: We updated this article for 2023. This is our tenth time ranking the best cities for singles in New Mexico.

About Chris Kolmar

Chris Kolmar has been in the real estate business for almost ten years now. He originally worked for Movoto Real Estate as the director of marketing before founding HomeSnacks.

He believes the key to finding the right place to live comes down to looking at the data, reading about things to do, and, most importantly, checking it out yourself before you move.

If you've been looking for a place to live in the past several years, you've probably stumbled upon his writing already.

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