Since the 1950s ended, most of America has let its guard down and people have become a whole lot kinkier.
Searches for sex online are at an all-time high, and with sexting, flexting, and every other new way of communicating our desires online, it’s pretty clear that we can’t get enough.
Whether we want to admit it or not.
Which of the places in Virginia are the kinkiest? We can tell by looking at who is buying the most ‘kinky’ stuff online.
Based on the number of purchases from Adam & Eve per capita, we came up with this list as the 10 kinkiest cities in the Old Dominion.
0.10 orders per capita
Herndon is a town in Fairfax County, Virginia, in the Washington, D.C. metropolitan area of the United States. The population was 23,292 at the 2010 census, which makes it the largest of three incorporated towns in the county.
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0.05 orders per capita
Culpeper is the only incorporated town in Culpeper County, Virginia, United States. The population was 16,379 at the 2010 census, up from 9,664 at the 2000 census. It is the county seat of Culpeper County.
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0.04 orders per capita
Waynesboro, is an independent city in the Commonwealth of Virginia. As of the 2010 census, the population was 21,006.
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0.04 orders per capita
Charlottesville, colloquially known as Cville by locals, is an independent city in the Commonwealth of Virginia. In 2016, an estimated 46,912 people lived within the city limits. It is the county seat of Albemarle County, which surrounds the city, though the two are separate legal entities. This means a Charlottesville resident will list the City of Charlottesville as both their county and city on official paperwork. It is named after the British Queen Charlotte of Mecklenburg-Strelitz. The Bureau of Economic Analysis combines the City of Charlottesville with the County of Albemarle for statistical purposes, bringing its steadily growing population to approximately 150,000. Charlottesville is the heart of the Charlottesville metropolitan area, which includes Albemarle, Fluvanna, Greene and Nelson counties.
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0.03 orders per capita
Fairfax, colloquially Central Fairfax, Downtown Fairfax, Fairfax City, or the City of Fairfax, is an independent city in the Commonwealth of Virginia. As of the 2010 census the population was 22,565, which had risen to an estimated 24,013 as of 2015.
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0.02 orders per capita
Warrenton is a town in Fauquier County, Virginia, United States. The population was 9,611 at the 2010 census, up from 6,670 at the 2000 census. The estimated population in 2015 was 9,897. Warrenton is the county seat of Fauquier County. It is at the junction of U.S. Route 15, U.S. Route 17, U.S. Route 29, and U.S. Route 211. The town is in the Piedmont region of Virginia, east of the Blue Ridge Mountains. The well-known Airlie Conference Center is 3 miles north of Warrenton, and the historic Vint Hill Farms military facility is 9 miles east. Fauquier Hospital is located in the town. Surrounded by Virginia wine and horse country, Warrenton is a popular destination outside Washington, D.C.
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0.01 orders per capita
Richmond is the capital of the Commonwealth of Virginia. It is the center of the Richmond Metropolitan Statistical Area and the Greater Richmond Region. It was incorporated in 1742, and has been an independent city since 1871.
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0.01 orders per capita
Winchester is an independent city located in the northwestern portion of the Commonwealth of Virginia. As of the 2010 census, the population was 26,203. As of 2015, its population is an estimated 27,284. It is the county seat of Frederick County, although the two are separate jurisdictions. The Bureau of Economic Analysis combines the city of Winchester with surrounding Frederick County for statistical purposes.
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0.01 orders per capita
Roanoke is an independent city in the U.S. state of Virginia. As of the 2010 census, the population was 97,032. It is located in the Roanoke Valley of the Roanoke Region of Virginia.
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0.01 orders per capita
Martinsville is an independent city near the southern border of the Commonwealth of Virginia. As of the 2010 census, the population was 13,821. It is the county seat of Henry County, although the two are separate jurisdictions. The Bureau of Economic Analysis combines the city of Martinsville with Henry County for statistical purposes.
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Methodology: How We Measured The Kinkiest Cities In The Old Dominion
In order to rank how kinky a city is, we simply had to see which cities in Virginia purchased the most sex toys from online erotic adult toy and novelty powerhouse Adam & Eve. They provided us with purchase information in 2015.
It’s pretty easy to figure it out, actually, when you know the cities in Virginia are buying adult toys.
Saturday Night Science at its finest — there’s no better way to solve this argument at a bar.
We calculated all the data on a per capita basis, meaning these are orders on a per-person basis, not a raw number of total dollars spent or number of orders. That keeps us from ranking the largest cities at the top since they have the most people.
Additionally, we only looked at the 58 places in Virginia with over 5,000 people.
The kinkiest cities in Virginia based on this methodology are Herndon, Culpeper, Waynesboro, Charlottesville, Fairfax, Warrenton, Richmond, Winchester, Roanoke, and Martinsville.
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Kinkiest Cities In Virginia For 2026
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| Rank | City | Population | Orders Per Capita |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Herndon | 24,672 | 0.10 |
| 2 | Culpeper | 20,794 | 0.05 |
| 3 | Waynesboro | 22,841 | 0.04 |
| 4 | Charlottesville | 45,437 | 0.04 |
| 5 | Fairfax | 25,026 | 0.03 |
| 6 | Warrenton | 10,176 | 0.02 |
| 7 | Richmond | 229,359 | 0.01 |
| 8 | Winchester | 27,913 | 0.01 |
| 9 | Roanoke | 98,355 | 0.01 |
| 10 | Martinsville | 13,658 | 0.01 |
| 11 | Virginia Beach | 456,349 | 0.01 |
| 12 | Norfolk | 233,596 | 0.01 |
| 13 | Manassas | 42,976 | 0.01 |
| 14 | Ashland | 7,772 | 0.01 |
| 15 | Front Royal | 15,296 | 0.01 |
| 16 | Staunton | 25,948 | 0.01 |
| 17 | Purcellville | 8,973 | 0.01 |
| 18 | Galax | 6,726 | 0.01 |
| 19 | Vienna | 16,412 | 0.01 |
| 20 | Richlands | 5,171 | 0.01 |
| 21 | Emporia | 5,547 | 0.01 |
| 22 | Suffolk | 98,796 | 0.01 |
| 23 | Harrisonburg | 51,392 | 0.01 |
| 24 | Petersburg | 33,537 | 0.01 |
| 25 | Radford | 16,726 | 0.01 |
| 26 | Blacksburg | 45,446 | 0.01 |
| 27 | Lexington | 7,525 | 0.01 |
| 28 | Bristol | 16,849 | 0.00 |
| 29 | Covington | 5,680 | 0.00 |
| 30 | Salem | 25,618 | 0.00 |
| 31 | Abingdon | 8,330 | 0.00 |
| 32 | Lynchburg | 79,497 | 0.00 |
| 33 | Farmville | 7,774 | 0.00 |
| 34 | Alexandria | 156,976 | 0.00 |
| 35 | Hopewell | 22,959 | 0.00 |
| 36 | Pulaski | 8,893 | 0.00 |
| 37 | Danville | 42,214 | 0.00 |
| 38 | Marion | 5,670 | 0.00 |
| 39 | South Boston | 7,853 | 0.00 |
| 40 | Orange | 5,066 | 0.00 |
| 41 | Vinton | 8,056 | 0.00 |
| 42 | Wytheville | 8,202 | 0.00 |
| 43 | Big Stone Gap | 5,162 | 0.00 |
| 44 | Leesburg | 49,171 | 0.00 |
| 45 | Williamsburg | 15,798 | 0.00 |
| 46 | Falls Church | 14,710 | 0.00 |
| 47 | Buena Vista | 6,593 | 0.00 |
| 48 | Fredericksburg | 28,873 | 0.00 |
| 49 | Dumfries | 5,816 | 0.00 |
| 50 | Smithfield | 8,834 | 0.00 |
| 51 | Bridgewater | 6,708 | 0.00 |
| 52 | Christiansburg | 22,720 | 0.00 |
| 53 | Woodstock | 5,871 | 0.00 |
| 54 | Colonial Heights | 18,352 | 0.00 |
| 55 | Newport News | 184,216 | 0.00 |
| 56 | Hampton | 137,557 | 0.00 |
| 57 | Chesapeake | 252,583 | 0.00 |
| 58 | Portsmouth | 97,190 | 0.00 |
Source: Adam & Eve orders per capita via Saturday Night Science. 58 Virginia cities with more than 5,000 residents.
Summary
Summary: The Kinkiest Cities In Virginia For 2026
So there you have it — the kinkiest cities in Virginia based on Adam & Eve orders per capita.
The kinkiest cities in Virginia are Herndon, Culpeper, Waynesboro, Charlottesville, Fairfax, Warrenton, Richmond, Winchester, Roanoke, and Martinsville. Not sold on Virginia? Take the two-minute Find Your Place quiz and see which state actually fits you.
Questions and answers
Kinkiest Cities In Virginia FAQs
What is the kinkiest city in Virginia?
Herndon is the kinkiest city in Virginia for 2026, measured by Adam & Eve adult-toy orders per capita. Culpeper and Waynesboro are close behind.
What are the kinkiest cities in Virginia?
The kinkiest cities in Virginia are Herndon, Culpeper, Waynesboro, Charlottesville, Fairfax, Warrenton, Richmond, Winchester, Roanoke, and Martinsville. We ranked all 58 Virginia cities with more than 5,000 residents.
How do you figure out where the kinkiest places are?
Adam & Eve shared city-level order data, and we ranked cities on orders per capita — not total dollars or order counts — so big cities do not get an unfair edge. Highest orders per person wins.
What is the least kinky city in Virginia?
Portsmouth posts the lowest orders per capita on the Virginia list. Either the residents are buying elsewhere or the crock pot really is the most exciting thing in the house.
Should people in Herndon be embarrassed?
No. The data is aggregated city-level order counts — nobody’s shopping cart is public. Consider it a compliment to Herndon’s open-mindedness.