Gayest cities in the US research summary. We used Saturday Night Science to research the cities in the United States with the highest percent of same-sex households for 2026. The data comes from the American Community Survey 2013-2018 vintage, which breaks down sex by household status. Unfortunately, the Census has stopped reporting at the city level, so this report reflects the most recent data.
The city with the highest rate of same-sex households in the US is San Francisco. 2.9% of households there are gay. The city with the most same-sex households is New York, NY, with 46,824 gay households.
The most gay state in the United States is vermont.
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It’s probably no surprise that San Francisco ranks as the gayest city in America. Here, 0.03% of residents are gay, and about 1 and a half percent of the total population is in same-sex marriages. San Francisco is a non-discrimination haven. Equality and fairness rule the day here. San Francisco first became a major gay destination during WWII when the Navy discharged gay sailors who were being expelled from the service at Treasure Island. Many decided to stay.
Of course, we mentioned the Castro District earlier. This area of downtown San Francisco is a safe place for anyone – the entire neighborhood has hotels, bars and restaurants that cater to the gay lifestyle. The Castro is a symbol of liberation for the whole world, where the gay community is not only welcomed, but justified.
A lot of this entire region boasts a large gay population. Across the bay, Oakland, Berkeley, and Hayward all also have a large gay community. Hence, a lot of people refer to it as the Gay Area. San Francisco proper isn’t just the gay capital of the US, it’s the gay capital of the world.
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Seattle Washington is unsurprisingly one of the gayest cities in the nation. Here, the gay population is 0.03% and also growing. Seattle passed San Francisco for the most households composed of gay or lesbian couples at 2.6% – and is the only U.S. city with more than 1% of households being lesbian couples.
Seattle has two annual Pride festivals. The city is also home to the two largest LGBTQ choruses in the world, the Seattle Men’s Chorus and Seattle Women’s Chorus. The city of Seattle has protected gay and lesbian workers since the passage of the Fair Employment Practice Ordinance in 1973. Seattle’s hospitals have been recognized for their dedication to equality for LGBT patients as well.
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Of course, Portland ranks really high in the nation, that’s no surprise. More than 1 in 20 people in Portland is gay. For a long time, the city of Roses’ slogan was Keep Portland Weird. Now, more and more, you’re seeing Keep Portland Queer around town.
Portland elected its first gay mayor in 2008. An out bisexual Portlander is Oregon’s governor; an out Portland lesbian is the state’s Speaker of the House. Rainbow flags fly everywhere. But back in 1964, the city of Portland attempted to shut down local gay bars in an attempt to crush the gay scene.
It didn’t work.
Today, the Portland Pride Festival and parade draws people from all over the country. Now unlike Seattle, which has a gay district called Capitol Hill, or San Francisco’s Castro district, Portland no longer has a gayborhood. Why? Dating apps have made hooking up at gay clubs less necessary for one. And, as one Portlander put it – why do we need a Gayborhood – here in Portland everyone’s kinda gay.
Overall, Oregon is one of the gayest states in the nation. Wyoming is the least gay state.
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Another blue dot in a sea of red, Austin, Texas has become one of the fastest-growing gay communities in the nation. Currently at 0.02%, the gay community here is very active. So many gay Americans are moving here that there’s a website called Gay in Austin which features things to do, meetups and advice on where to live.
Austin also boasts the Austin Gay & Lesbian International Film Festival as well as a gay and lesbian chamber of commerce. In addition, 1.2 percent of households have a same-sex partner. Dallas actually ranks 17th in the nation in terms of percentage of gay households. Interesting.
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Where the gayest cities in America are
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How we determined the gayest cities in America for 2026
In order to rank the gayest cities in America, we used Saturday Night Science and data from the 2013-2018 American Community Survey from the U.S. Census. We looked at:
We limited the analysis to non-CDPs that have over 100,000 households. We ranked each city from 1 to 80 with the city containing the highest percentage of unmarried, same-sex partners households being the most gay.
- Percentage of all households that are unmarried, same-sex partners
In the end, San Francisco was the gayest city with ~2% gay households.
We updated this report for 2026. This report is our eleventh time ranking the gayest cities in America.
The full list
Gayest Cities In The US For 2026
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| Rank | City | Households | Gay Households | % Gay Households |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | San Francisco, CA | 363,970 | 10,457 | 0.0% |
| 2 | Seattle, WA | 363,466 | 10,382 | 0.0% |
| 3 | Portland, OR | 289,705 | 7,770 | 0.0% |
| 4 | Atlanta, GA | 236,468 | 6,123 | 0.0% |
| 5 | St. Petersburg, FL | 119,244 | 3,056 | 0.0% |
| 6 | Oakland, CA | 176,584 | 4,475 | 0.0% |
| 7 | Minneapolis, MN | 192,734 | 4,752 | 0.0% |
| 8 | Long Beach, CA | 170,927 | 4,111 | 0.0% |
| 9 | Orlando, FL | 131,179 | 3,005 | 0.0% |
| 10 | Austin, TX | 456,113 | 9,524 | 0.0% |
| 11 | Denver, CO | 335,428 | 6,505 | 0.0% |
| 12 | Miami, FL | 194,821 | 3,749 | 0.0% |
| 13 | St. Louis, MO | 144,891 | 2,754 | 0.0% |
| 14 | Boston, MA | 283,374 | 5,344 | 0.0% |
| 15 | Sacramento, CA | 200,321 | 3,744 | 0.0% |
| 16 | San Diego, CA | 530,412 | 9,748 | 0.0% |
| 17 | Dallas, TX | 533,915 | 9,015 | 0.0% |
| 18 | Albuquerque, NM | 243,733 | 4,112 | 0.0% |
| 19 | Pittsburgh, PA | 138,188 | 2,310 | 0.0% |
| 20 | Jersey City, NJ | 125,223 | 2,072 | 0.0% |
| 21 | Chicago, IL | 1,160,205 | 18,849 | 0.0% |
| 22 | Richmond, VA | 104,321 | 1,665 | 0.0% |
| 23 | Los Angeles, CA | 1,439,097 | 22,148 | 0.0% |
| 24 | Urban Honolulu, HI | 136,902 | 2,069 | 0.0% |
| 25 | St. Paul, MN | 125,249 | 1,890 | 0.0% |
| 26 | Indianapolis, IN | 362,961 | 5,437 | 0.0% |
| 27 | Philadelphia, PA | 679,428 | 9,883 | 0.0% |
| 28 | Kansas City, MO | 221,979 | 3,211 | 0.0% |
| 29 | Columbus, OH | 390,528 | 5,587 | 0.0% |
| 30 | Buffalo, NY | 119,630 | 1,702 | 0.0% |
| 31 | New York, NY | 3,334,088 | 46,824 | 0.0% |
| 32 | Phoenix, AZ | 610,442 | 8,363 | 0.0% |
| 33 | Durham, NC | 126,550 | 1,732 | 0.0% |
| 34 | New Orleans, LA | 155,821 | 2,122 | 0.0% |
| 35 | Scottsdale, AZ | 118,637 | 1,614 | 0.0% |
| 36 | Boise City, ID | 101,178 | 1,375 | 0.0% |
| 37 | Cincinnati, OH | 144,297 | 1,950 | 0.0% |
| 38 | Colorado Springs, CO | 202,515 | 2,730 | 0.0% |
| 39 | Arlington, VA | 112,027 | 1,484 | 0.0% |
| 40 | Las Vegas, NV | 247,741 | 3,168 | 0.0% |
| 41 | Greensboro, NC | 123,984 | 1,562 | 0.0% |
| 42 | Houston, TX | 930,404 | 11,656 | 0.0% |
| 43 | Madison, WI | 128,261 | 1,592 | 0.0% |
| 44 | Baltimore, MD | 255,668 | 3,131 | 0.0% |
| 45 | Aurora, CO | 145,310 | 1,777 | 0.0% |
| 46 | Tampa, FL | 166,278 | 1,989 | 0.0% |
| 47 | Tucson, AZ | 228,020 | 2,726 | 0.0% |
| 48 | Reno, NV | 114,322 | 1,328 | 0.0% |
| 49 | Jacksonville, FL | 394,370 | 4,565 | 0.0% |
| 50 | San Antonio, TX | 554,581 | 6,365 | 0.0% |
| 51 | Mesa, AZ | 198,498 | 2,262 | 0.0% |
| 52 | Fort Wayne, IN | 110,929 | 1,227 | 0.0% |
| 53 | Charlotte, NC | 368,788 | 4,076 | 0.0% |
| 54 | Oklahoma City, OK | 280,065 | 3,067 | 0.0% |
| 55 | Lubbock, TX | 107,086 | 1,164 | 0.0% |
| 56 | Raleigh, NC | 203,443 | 2,154 | 0.0% |
| 57 | Tulsa, OK | 172,909 | 1,820 | 0.0% |
| 58 | Bakersfield, CA | 129,625 | 1,334 | 0.0% |
| 59 | Toledo, OH | 118,662 | 1,203 | 0.0% |
| 60 | Cleveland, OH | 169,683 | 1,707 | 0.0% |
| 61 | Henderson, NV | 132,573 | 1,289 | 0.0% |
| 62 | Milwaukee, WI | 232,520 | 2,248 | 0.0% |
| 63 | Fort Worth, TX | 342,126 | 3,208 | 0.0% |
| 64 | Wichita, KS | 158,589 | 1,466 | 0.0% |
| 65 | San Jose, CA | 328,550 | 3,024 | 0.0% |
| 66 | Winston-Salem, NC | 103,058 | 939 | 0.0% |
| 67 | Anaheim, CA | 106,317 | 962 | 0.0% |
| 68 | El Paso, TX | 245,346 | 2,178 | 0.0% |
| 69 | Omaha, NE | 201,698 | 1,768 | 0.0% |
| 70 | Chandler, AZ | 107,693 | 940 | 0.0% |
| 71 | Plano, TX | 112,438 | 979 | 0.0% |
| 72 | Newark, NJ | 113,384 | 966 | 0.0% |
| 73 | Corpus Christi, TX | 118,741 | 969 | 0.0% |
| 74 | Irvine, CA | 112,091 | 877 | 0.0% |
| 75 | Arlington, TX | 142,455 | 1,096 | 0.0% |
| 76 | Virginia Beach, VA | 179,851 | 1,380 | 0.0% |
| 77 | Memphis, TN | 253,120 | 1,918 | 0.0% |
| 78 | Detroit, MI | 257,998 | 1,943 | 0.0% |
| 79 | Fresno, CA | 180,450 | 1,336 | 0.0% |
| 80 | Lincoln, NE | 122,623 | 661 | 0.0% |
Source: U.S. Census ACS 2013-2018. The largest US cities by households.
Summary
There You Have It – The Gayest Cities In America
So, while we all knew San Francisco would be the gayest city in the country, we added to the list with cities like Atlanta and Portland.
The gayest cities in the United States are San Francisco, CA, Seattle, WA, Portland, OR, Atlanta, GA, St. Petersburg, FL, Oakland, CA, Minneapolis, MN, Long Beach, CA, Orlando, FL, and Austin, TX.
And while the gayest cities are usually on the coasts, Minneapolis does make an appearance in the top ten.